Leading Like Jesus: A 5 Question Heart Check

As Christian women called to lead (yes, I’m talking about you) — whether in the boardroom, at home, or in ministry — it's easy to slip into leading from pressure, performance, or even pride. But Jesus calls us to a different way — one anchored in surrender, humility, and truth.

Before you step into your next decision, meeting, or moment of influence, pause and ask yourself these five questions:

1. Where in my leadership am I relying more on myself than on Jesus?
   Self-reliance feels efficient, but it often leads to burnout. Jesus invites us to walk with Him — not just for Him. When we surrender our leadership to Him, He shows up to lead through us.

2. How can I practice servant leadership this week — especially when it’s inconvenient?
   Real leadership looks like kneeling before it climbs. Who around you needs your presence more than your performance? Remember to consider those at work, those in your community, and those at home.

3. Which fruit of the Spirit do I need more of in my leadership?
   Is it patience in hard conversations? Joy in dry seasons? Self-control when you're stretched thin? Let the Holy Spirit lead you and He will provide what you need.

4. Are my decisions being shaped more by external pressure or eternal truth?
   Culture will push you to impress. Christ calls you to obey. Choose the lasting over the loud. (Stay centered on truth. I want to type that 1,000 times because we so easily start to believe, think, and say things that are not truth. We must stop it. If it doesn’t line up with God’s word, it’s not true.)

5. Who in my circle is watching how I lead — and what are they seeing about Jesus through me?
   Your leadership is a witness. You don’t have to be perfect, but you do have to be present and intentional. In Matthew 5:14 Jesus is speaking and says, You are the light of the world – like a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden. This means that those who are living in spiritual darkness will be attracted by our light and want to step into it. Jesus’ light always reveals truth. Let your light shine. God will use it to change lives.

Leadership isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about asking the right questions and inviting Jesus to lead through you — moment by moment, day by day, conversation by conversation. Be present and see the opportunities God is bringing into your life to lead others to Him.

I am praying for you as you grow into the leader God is calling you to become.

Pam

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