There are some habits that truly shape who we become.

Not just in small ways — but in life-changing ways.

Over the years, I’ve realized there are a few intentional habits that deeply impact my mindset, my peace, my confidence, my leadership, and even the way I respond during difficult seasons. And honestly? I can always tell when I’m practicing them… and when I’m neglecting them.

Motherhood is one of the greatest leadership callings God will ever give us.

And yet, so many moms feel overwhelmed, discouraged, or like they’re simply trying to survive each day. We spend so much time managing schedules, meeting needs, and putting out fires that we can lose sight of what matters most.

But friend, your influence (aka leadership) matters more than you know.

Do you ever have this nagging feeling like you’re meant to do more…
to lead, to influence, to make an impact… but something keeps holding you back?

As a believer, you know that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Yet, you are also aware that you are not fulfilling it. You want to lead. You want to influence others and make a lasting impact in their life. But, life is so busy and day after day passes and you are still hesitating, waiting, and just annoyed by the feeling of “more”.

How often do you think about being a Christ-centered leader? What does it really mean? And does it even matter?

Look around you and what you might soon discover is that there is a lot of confusion in our world. Instead of love - there is hate. Instead of truth - there is opinion. And just like the Bible says, we are living in a time where right seems wrong and wrong seems right.

 What is your story? We hear everyone else’s story and we think they are inspirational and amazing. But we view our story through a totally different lens. We look back and see the pain and suffering. We see the disappointment and all the people who failed us. We see ourselves as less than or ordinary at best - while we see the extraordinary in everyone else.

We need to stop that. Consider all the amazing stories…

Let me walk you through 5 types of support every strong leader needs—and help you start building yours. You were never meant to do it on your own. Let’s get you the support you need to gain clarity, grown your confidence, and become an influential leader who makes an impact in the lives around you.

No one likes having hard conversations. But if you’re called to leadership, they’re not optional—they’re necessary.

And here’s the truth:
Avoiding hard conversations doesn’t make things better… it makes them bigger.

Let’s talk about how to have hard conversations the right way…

Humility is an attribute of a strong leader.

Many people think leadership requires boldness, confidence, or charisma. But according to Scripture—and the example of Jesus—humility is essential for strong leadership. Without humility, you may lead for a season, but you won’t lead with lasting impact.

Do you ever think about it? If today was your last day, what influence would you have had in this world? I’m not talking about success or titles. I’m asking, who would stand up at your funeral and say, “Because I knew her, I know Jesus.”

Consider all the people –

Like many Christian women, you feel called… called to more… called to lead. You love God. You want to live intentionally. You want your life, your work, and your influence to matter, to make a difference, to point others to Jesus. And yet—like so many, you feel stuck. Let’s talk about why…

It’s true. You are called to lead. But know this… your leadership will not be tested in calm seasons — it will be revealed in the storms.

We don’t want to be women who lead faithfully when things are going well, but feel shaken when circumstances become uncertain, difficult, or demanding. Instead, we want to be steadfast and standing firm no matter what storm may come our way.

Here is a truth I pray you will receive today…

As Believers, we are all called to lead. Leadership is influence - and as salt and light – we should be making an impact in the lives of others. That is called leadership regardless of your title.

Carrying responsibility often leaves us wrestling with second-guessing, decision fatigue, and a quiet sense of unrest. We love God. We want to honor Him. We want to do the right thing for the right reason, yet, clarity feels elusive…

You cannot step confidently into God’s plan if you’re still battling lies that keep you stuck and second-guessing your calling. Whether you lead at work, in your home, at church, or in your community, your leadership rises or falls on what you believe—about God, about your purpose, and about yourself. But here’s the good news:

Most of us could raise our hand high! Some of us might have a pride issue instead of true confidence. We hear a lot about self-confidence, yet as believers we know that it is not confidence in ourselves we need, but confidence in the One who said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.”

It starts in your mind. Before you take action… Before you influence anyone… Before you step boldly into God’s calling… Your thoughts either fuel your leadership or sabotage it. And most often? It’s not lack of skill, credentials, or opportunity that holds us back. It’s the quiet narratives we allow to run on autopilot in our minds.

If you don’t have any margin - you know, blank space - in your life, then you probably don’t have much peace, clarity, or confidence either. Without margin, you feel scattered and unsure because you are moving too fast. While you should be feeling more confident at this stage in your life - you feel insecure and maybe even a little defeated.

We look at others who are …