Called but Stuck? 5 Things Holding You Back From God’s Plan
Have you ever known God was calling you toward something, yet found yourself strangely unable to move forward? You’ve prayed about it. You’ve thought about it—probably more than you need to. You may even have a pretty good idea of what the next step is, but for some reason, you keep standing in the same place.
I think many of us assume that if God is truly calling us, moving forward should feel clearer than it does. We expect confidence to come with the calling. We expect the timing to make sense, the doors to open easily, and perhaps even a little reassurance that if we step out in faith, everything will work out the way we hope.
But that hasn’t been my experience.
More often, God has asked me to trust Him before I could see where He was taking me. I’ve had to move without knowing exactly how things would turn out, and I’ve had to learn that uncertainty doesn’t necessarily mean I’m outside of God’s will. Sometimes uncertainty is the very place where faith grows.
If you know God is stirring something in you but you feel stuck, one of these five things may be standing between you and your next step.
1. You’re Waiting for Complete Clarity
We love clarity. We want God to show us not only what to do next, but what happens after that—and after that. We want to see how all the pieces fit together before we commit ourselves to the journey.
The problem is that God often doesn’t give us the whole plan. He gives us enough direction to take the next step and invites us to trust Him for what comes after it. In my own life, I’ve discovered that some of the clarity I desperately wanted beforehand only came after I began moving.
That doesn’t mean we recklessly run ahead and call it faith. We pray. We listen. We seek wisdom and stay close enough to the Lord to recognize the prompting of the Holy Spirit. But there comes a point when seeking clarity can become an excuse for delaying obedience.
Sometimes the better prayer is simply, “Lord, this is the direction I believe You are leading me. I’m going to take the next step. If I’m wrong, close the door. If I’m right, lead me through the next one.”
We don’t need to know where the entire road leads before we begin walking it. Clarity is helpful, but obedience is the goal.
2. You’re Afraid You’ll Fail
Fear of failure has a way of making us believe that doing nothing is safer than doing the wrong thing. The questions begin swirling: What if I fail? What if I misunderstood God? What if people judge me? What if I discover I’m not equipped for this after all?
Eventually, all those “what ifs” can become so loud that we stop moving altogether.
But I’ve gotten things wrong before. I’ve taken steps that didn’t turn out the way I expected, and I’m sure I’ll do it again. What I’ve learned is that God is not limited by my imperfect ability to discern every decision perfectly. He is a good Father. He can redirect me, teach me, grow me and even use my failures for my good.
Perhaps the deeper issue beneath our fear of failure is our desire to control the outcome. We want to know that if we take the risk, it will work. But success was never ours to guarantee. Our responsibility is to faithfully obey what we believe God is asking us to do and trust Him with the results.
So I’ve had to ask myself a harder question: Would I rather risk failing while sincerely trying to obey God, or remain where I am because I’m too afraid to try? For me, I would rather risk getting it wrong than allow fear to make the decision for me.
3. You’re Waiting Until You Feel Ready
Sometimes we aren’t confused at all. We know what we need to do—we’re simply hesitating.
We tell ourselves we’ll do it next year, when life settles down, when we have more confidence, when we’ve learned a little more, or when we finally feel ready. And sometimes what we call “waiting on God” is really procrastination dressed up in spiritual language.
A listener recently told me that one of the hardest things for her is surrendering when it doesn’t feel right in the moment. I understand that. There have been plenty of times when obedience didn’t feel comfortable to me either. Following God has required me to move outside my comfort zone, face my own insecurities, and do things I didn’t feel particularly prepared to do. Called But Stuck - Podcast Audio
But our feelings were never intended to be the final authority for our obedience. We can feel nervous and still move forward. We can feel uncertain and still trust God. We can even feel completely inadequate and still say yes.
You may never reach a moment when you suddenly feel completely ready to write the book, accept the promotion, lead the Bible study, start the ministry, speak up about something that needs to change, or pursue whatever God has placed before you. Sometimes readiness develops as we obey.
4. You Don’t Feel Qualified or Confident Enough
If feeling qualified were a requirement for following God, I would have missed much of what He has called me to do.
I didn’t have a college degree or consider myself a writer when I wrote a book about intimacy with Jesus. I certainly didn’t have a résumé that qualified me to start a podcast. And when God opened the door for me to lead a nonprofit, I had never done that before either.
I could have looked at each of those opportunities and made a very convincing list of reasons someone else would be more qualified. Instead, God has continually taught me that what I lack, He provides.
That truth has changed the way I think about confidence. Christian confidence is not standing up and declaring, “I’ve got this.” Christian confidence is being able to say, “God has me.” I can trust Him enough to do what He is asking because my confidence ultimately rests in His sufficiency, not mine. Called But Stuck - Podcast Audio
Something else happens when we begin moving: God equips us along the way. He gives us greater revelation and understanding. He brings people into our lives who have knowledge we don’t have. He puts resources, conversations, training and opportunities in our path at just the right time. We learn things we couldn’t have learned standing still. Called But Stuck - Podcast Audio
Comparison can make this especially difficult. When we measure ourselves against someone who is further down the road, we will almost always find a reason to feel inadequate. But God did not call you because you could duplicate someone else’s assignment. If He chose you for this particular work, you can trust Him to provide what you need as you faithfully follow Him.
5. You Believe You Don’t Have Time
This one requires some honest evaluation because there are seasons when life truly is full. Responsibilities are real. Families need us. Work requires our attention. There are times when our capacity is simply different than it was in another season.
But instead of automatically concluding, “I don’t have time,” perhaps the better question is, “Lord, what belongs in this season of my life?”
Several years ago, I was leading a Bible study of about fifty women when I knew God was calling me to write a book. I loved leading that study, but I also knew I couldn’t give both things the attention they needed. Something had to change, so I stepped away from leading Bible study for a season to make room to write.
What happened next was beautiful. Six women from that Bible study stepped forward and became Bible study leaders themselves. My stepping away didn’t diminish the ministry; it created an opportunity for other women to lead. And I was able to give my attention to what God was asking of me in that particular season. Called But Stuck - Podcast Audio
Sometimes following God means adding something new. Other times it means releasing, delegating or postponing something good so there is room for what He is asking us to do now.
And we also have to remember that a calling doesn’t have to be completed in a day. When God called me to write a book, I didn’t need time to write an entire book that afternoon. I needed enough time to say yes and begin. Eventually, one paragraph became a chapter, and one chapter became another. The same is true whether you’re starting a business, pursuing a ministry, accepting a leadership opportunity or beginning something entirely different. You don’t need the capacity for step ten today. You need enough faith to take step one.
Maybe the Real Issue Is Trust
When I look at these five things—lack of clarity, fear of failure, hesitation, insecurity and lack of time—I see a common thread running through all of them.
We want certainty before obedience.
We want to know where God is taking us. We want to know we’re going to succeed. We want to feel ready and capable, and we would really prefer for the timing to be convenient. But beneath all of those desires is a deeper question: Do I trust God enough to follow Him when I don’t have those assurances? Called But Stuck - Podcast Audio
That is the question I want to leave with you.
Maybe you don’t need the entire plan today. Maybe you don’t need more confidence or another month to think about it. Maybe the most important thing you can do is get quiet before the Lord and ask, “What have You already made clear that I haven’t acted on yet?”
Then listen.
And when He shows you the next step, trust Him enough to take it.
You don’t have to know where it will lead. You don’t have to guarantee the outcome. You don’t even have to feel ready.
You just need to know the One who is leading you.
I am praying for you -
p.s.
Listen to Episode 251 of the Confident Christian Influence Podcast.
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Hi friend,
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